A note on curation
This isn't a listicle. These are the things I actually return to — the ones that make me feel more alive in my body, more curious about desire, more present in my own life. I hope they do the same for you.
01
Albums
7 recordsWhen I Get Home
Solange
When I Get Home
Solange
An album that lives entirely in the body. Texture, slowness, and Black feminine interiority as erotic practice.
▶ YouTube
● Spotify
♫ Apple Music
⭐ Amazon Music
▶ Override Album Artwork
I Want You
Marvin Gaye
I Want You
Marvin Gaye
The original meditation on longing. The title track alone is a clinic in how desire sounds when it's honest.
▶ YouTube
● Spotify
♫ Apple Music
⭐ Amazon Music
▶ Override Album Artwork
Adventures in Paradise
Minnie Riperton
Adventures in Paradise
Minnie Riperton
Riperton's voice as instrument and body simultaneously. Lush, almost overwhelmingly sensory.
▶ YouTube
● Spotify
♫ Apple Music
⭐ Amazon Music
▶ Override Album Artwork
What's Your Pleasure?
Jessie Ware
What's Your Pleasure?
Jessie Ware
The most joyful album about eroticism I know. Pleasure as something you pursue, not wait for.
▶ YouTube
● Spotify
♫ Apple Music
⭐ Amazon Music
▶ Override Album Artwork
Sound & Color
Alabama Shakes
Sound & Color
Alabama Shakes
Brittany Howard's voice is a full-body experience. This album does something to the nervous system that I can't explain but deeply trust.
▶ YouTube
● Spotify
♫ Apple Music
⭐ Amazon Music
▶ Override Album Artwork
The Age of Pleasure
Janelle Monáe
The Age of Pleasure
Janelle Monáe
A manifesto for erotic freedom dressed as a summer album. Exactly what this resource list is about.
▶ YouTube
● Spotify
♫ Apple Music
⭐ Amazon Music
▶ Override Album Artwork
Conditionally Yours
Tennis
Conditionally Yours
Tennis
Intimate, domestic, and romantic in the quietest way. For slow mornings and the eroticism of ordinary life.
▶ YouTube
● Spotify
♫ Apple Music
⭐ Amazon Music
▶ Override Album Artwork
02
Podcasts
3 shows · more coming🎙
Sex with Emily
Emily Morse
The gold standard for accessible, shame-free sex education. Emily meets you where you are and brings clinical knowledge without clinical distance. Start anywhere — the back catalog is a treasure.
Sex Education
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Lovers
Shan
Intimate, thoughtful, and deeply human. Shan holds conversations about love and desire the way a good therapist holds space — with curiosity and without agenda.
Love & Desire
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Pleasure Project
Dr. Jen Kennedy
Pleasure as a practice, a framework, and a right. Dr. Kennedy brings rigor and warmth in equal measure — exactly the energy this brand was built on.
Embodiment
More podcasts with specific episode recommendations coming soon — check back after the solstice.
03
Books
7 titles01
Women Who Love Sex
Dr. Gina Ogden
Foundational. Ogden centers women's erotic experience not as a problem to solve but as a wholeness to inhabit. Required reading for anyone building a relationship with their own desire.
Sex Research
02
Good Sex
Jessica Graham
Mindfulness and sexuality woven together in a way that actually makes sense. Graham makes the case that presence is the most erotic thing you can bring to any encounter.
Mindfulness & Sex
03
The Multi-Orgasmic Woman
Mantak Chia & Rachel Carlton Abrams
Ancient Taoist wisdom meets modern anatomy. A serious, body-forward exploration of female sexual energy and what becomes possible when you actually understand your own body.
Body & Energy
04
The Mastery of Love
Don Miguel Ruiz
On loving without fear and relating without losing yourself. The erotic life is impossible without this kind of clarity about how we love and why.
Love & Relationships
05
The Pilates Bible
Brooke Siler
The body is the first erotic site. Pilates as a practice of returning to and inhabiting yourself — precision, breath, and the profound aliveness of a body that is known and tended to.
Movement & Body
06
Tai Chi in 10 Weeks
Daverick Leggett
Slowness as erotic practice. Tai chi as a way of cultivating presence, flow, and an intimate relationship with your own energy — which is exactly what fostering eroticism asks of us.
Movement & Energy
07
Fragrant Herbal
To be confirmed
The senses are the doorway. The relationship between scent, memory, and desire is one of the most underexplored erotic territories there is.
Senses & Embodiment
04
Peer-Reviewed Articles
Coming soon
I'm pulling the best foundational research on pleasure, interoception, and embodiment from PubMed and Google Scholar — with annotations that make each one actually readable. Coming soon.
05
Videos
Coming soon
TED talks, YouTube essays, and documentaries on pleasure, desire, and the erotic life — with timestamps for the moments that actually matter. Coming soon.
06
Substacks
Coming soon
Writers whose work fosters eroticism and embodied living — each one a recommendation, not just a link. Coming soon.
07
Lifespan & Eros
Coming soon01
Lifespan Development & The Erotic Self
Codie Miller · Majora Minora
A guided exploration of eroticism across the human lifespan — from the embodied curiosity of childhood through the deepening wisdom of elderhood. How desire evolves, what each stage asks of us, and why understanding our developmental history is one of the most erotic things we can do.
Featured Essay
Developmental psychology resources, peer-reviewed research, and curated reading on desire, intimacy, and embodiment across every stage of life. Coming soon.
08
Featured Writing
3 essays
March 7, 2026
Sexual Healing
Will Marvin Gaye's family come after me for the title of this article? On sexology, pleasure potential, and why I needed a seat at the table — written mid-midterms, with full conviction.
Read on Substack →
Our Sexy Brains
February 22, 2026
Our Sexy Brains and Their Adventures in Paradise
Well...I've been reading and writing about sex again. On the neuroscience of desire, what our brains are actually doing when we feel aroused, and why this matters for how we live.
Read on Substack →
January 31, 2026
Songs of Solomon and the Sin of Existence
Are we just going to breeze past Song of Solomon? On the most erotic book in the Bible, the theology of the body, and what it means that desire was written into scripture from the beginning.
Read on Substack →
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